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"The love of your life usually comes after the mistake of your life", A Love Story.

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"The love of your life usually comes after the mistake of your life" Whenever I was in 7 th  grade I didn’t know much about how relationships worked, like most 7 th  graders, but while I was exploring and trying to understand them I met my future boyfriend, boy #1. Of course, at the time I didn’t know that I would be with him while I was in high school but when I met him I knew that we could potentially be together for a long time. I had already known him from our past at that point because of our parents and because of the daycare that we went to together. We knew each other for a long time but I don’t think that neither of us realized that we did until we got into middle school. After a few time hanging out and spending time together, we started getting to know each other. We went on a few dates and hung out as teenagers do. But, like every relationship, we had our ups and downs that ultimately ended in us breaking up. Neither of us took it hard because at that time it...

Selena Gomez’ New Song: IS it about Justin Bieber?

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Selena Gomez’ New Song: IS it about Justin Bieber? Earlier this week, Selena Gomez dropped a new song titled “Lose You To Love Me” and many are speculating that she was singing about her ex-lover Justin Bieber. Recently, Justin Bieber has gotten married to Hailey Baldwin (now Bieber) after being together since July of 2018. The idea of this started when Selena’s fans started to leave hate on Hailey Bieber's Instagram. This led to Selena commenting “I am so thankful for the response of the song. However, I will never stand for women tearing other women down so please be kind to everyone.” While live on Instagram. Although things between Hailey and Selena seem to be tamed, peoples still speculate her new song is to Justin. So, the only way to find out is to look at the lyrics to her new hit single. Verse 1 You promised the world and I fell for it I put you first and you adored it Set fires to my forest And you let it burn Sang off-key...

A Beginners Guide to Dating

A Beginners Guide To Dating There are many steps that could help you start or improve your dating status very easily but I have chosen some of the top tips that I think would help you with dating in a relationship! The first would be that you can meet anyone anywhere. This could be at a gas station or a concert. Anywhere you go, you can meet someone that you could start a potential long term relationship (LTR) with. Don't be scared to go out and meet new people if you don't already have a significant other. There are many events that help with your dating life and all you have to do is research or go on Facebook and find events near you to try and spark up a relationship with someone. When someone thinks of a date they think of a fancy 5star meal while being dressed up in your fanciest suit or dress. This is where you are wrong. Dates are meant for you to go out and have some fun with a person that you might have interest in. This can help you to understand and learn things a...

Does love distract you from your goals?

When falling in love with someone, most people actually go into the relationship with very high hopes of it working out completely with you and the other person falling in love forever and getting married to live a long, happy life together. But I don't think people understand that you can't go into a, hopefully long-lasting, relationship blinded by all of the love and forget about everything else happening around you.  This plays into the question, "Is love a distraction from your goals." This question is a very debatable topic that has been around for a long time with many people wondering if it does. Yes, you can go into a relationship with the thought that you and your spouse are in love and that he/she is fun but you can't forget about keeping the serious driven, focused and talented respect that you had.  Relationships have their own goals but you can't forget about your own personal goals  while keeping up with your relationship goals. A relationship...

Fall date ideas!

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I mean, who doesn't love fall weather with your significant other? I'm gonna give you a few fall date ideas and reasons why you should definitely try them out! Haunted Houses Its spooky season so who didn't expect this one? If you're into spooky things then this is a must! Personally, I hate being scared, but as long as you have someone to hold onto while almost peeing your pants, right? It is great first date idea or for a group of friends! And honestly, If you don't go, fall didn't even happen. Pumpkin Patch Mostly for the pictures, if we're honest. But in all seriousness, it's such a fun date idea! Picking out pumpkins is such a calming thing for me each year. So put on a sweater and go find a pumpkin! See who can find the biggest or smallest one, I promise you it's fun.  Pumpkin Carving Since you've gone to the pumpkin patch, now it is time to carve them! Look up some cute pumpkin carving on Pinterest and get to wor...

Other blogs to read up on: For Realtionships

This week, I read up on a few different blogs to see how I could better my own. I found two very popular and appreciated blogs on relationships and sifted through their content. The first blog I found was  iBelieve,  I really like this blog and decided to feature it because it is made specifically for Christian women. They have an excellent amount of content on many diverse subjects concerning Christian women. I really like all of the information and different topics you can read about. I recommend this blog to my readers who are Christian are looking for a well organized and informational blog to read! and The second blog I found was  My Pixie Blog , I read from this blog regularly and really enjoy it! The set up of the blog is very pleasing and organized! Her blog is set up very nicely and it is super easy to find what you're looking for. I definitely would recommend this blog to my readers, especially ones who don't normally read blogs! It is very organized and anyone...

5 Common Reasons Why People Cheat

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5 Common Reasons Why People Cheat  Whether you’re the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating, you will always want to know why. Although it's fairly easy to hate a cheater and move on, there are real explanations for this to happen. I’m here to give you 5 reasons why people cheat on their partners. Opportunity It's pretty simple if you think about it. Someone has proposed an opportunity, and they take it. Which is good news for those of you who think your partner intended on hurting you. With opportunity, things just happen. This was found to be the main reason people cheat , by a psychotherapist with over 35 years o f experience,   Isadora Alman,  M.F.T.    Perhaps the person wasn't actually looking to cheat. Personally, I believe, if someone truly loves you, it outweighs the opportunity. They want to breakup Breaking up with someone can be very hard . And for those who can’t seem to do it, there is one way to grantee a breakup. Chea...